Thursday, November 13, 2008

Letting go ....

Have you ever loved something... a lot, but there comes a point where you have to make a choice between holding on or letting go to find out if that something loved you enough to come back ... ?
People always say, you must've heard it at least once ... "If you love something enough, let it go, if it was meant to be, he or she will come back to you" ...
Easier said than done, trust me. Letting go ain't that easy ... there's a lot you put into each relationship... love is the foundation and the basic, I know, but there is hope, trust, a sense of security, being there for the other are some main ingredients. 
Every relationship is like cooking your meal for two every day, you put in all this, so its the perfect mix and work on it, but tell me, what happens when one or a few ingredients is suddenly missing, or one person loses interest in one of the ingredients ... the flavour is lost. Forever ?

Is it easier to hold on or to let go and give it time.

You know whats worse than a fight with a friend ? Hearing your friend talk to you in a cold tone
and say "I'll talk to you later"

I was never good at letting go, I always thought hold on long enough, and the storm will pass, and it wont be so difficult anymore and things will be stronger and better at the end, is that always true ? or should I learn how to let go now ?  

There are all kinds of fears in this world aren't there ? Even more choices to make ...

1 comments:

- N - said...

whats worse than a fight with a friend ? Hearing your friend talk to you in a cold tone and say "I'll talk to you later" - Thats certainly much more painful.Not just in case of friends but also with the people you know.
And yes its very easy to say to let go but when you realize that the 'flavor is lost' ( from the other person's side) , you need to move on. However if you are sure that things are going to be Ok , the wait is worthwhile.
Lastly , all great things that you want in life are on the other side of fear. Shouldn't let the fear come in the way of choice.